So you make new mistakes.
We do some of our best growing and learning from failure. Although none of us would ever seek it, we recognise that it is one of our greatest teachers. That being said, someone else’s failure is far less painful for you and yet the benefit can be just as great.
A mentor who is willing to expose their own mistakes and short falls and who has done the work of processing where things went wrong gives you the chance to get all the upsides of failure without the personal consequence.
It is the height of foolishness to repeat the avoidable mistakes of others and yet it happens often because we don’t lean into the wisdom and experience of others who’ve been there and done that.
So you don’t walk alone.
Whether a leader in business or ministry, a parent, a student, a full time worker – we are all prone to feeling isolated in our roles. We can fall to the belief that we are the only one doing or experiencing what we are doing or experiencing and bare an unnecessary weight in that.
When we reach out to mentors we ensure that we are not left to those feelings very long – if at all. The investment of encouragement and support from a relationship that is articulated and reliable gives us a sense of partnership that sustains and empowers us.
So you give yourself every chance of success.
A well chosen mentor is a source of great wisdom and insight. Because of their own experience, qualification or status in their specific field they are situated to give great advice and direction. You tap into a breadth of knowledge and awareness that is well beyond your own abilities thus building your capacity at a rate you couldn’t achieve alone.
In a relationship of trust, correction and redirection can happen. Guidance can be given. Problems can be solved. Difficult conversations can be prepared for. Courage to do the hard things can be fortified.
What would you add from your own experience? What are the benefits you’ve reaped from a mentoring relationship?
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Awesome read! I am so blessed to have had lots of amazing mentors in my life, some for shorter seasons answer some consistently throughout the years.
It is so true that many mistakes are avoidable if we listen to those who have already made them. It takes a touch of humility to acknowledge the truth that we know very little and can learn so much. I am going to make mistakes, but I want to make new ones with the support and guidance of those wiser than me.
I don’t know how much of a mentor I have been able to be yet, but it is something I am hoping to cultivate more as opportunities arise.
Thanks for your wonderful blog KimmE!
Such great reflections Mandy. Thanks for sharing!!!